Originally Published on HeartsConverse.com.
I don’t need a man to put me on a pedestal. The idea of being an arm piece or a trophy wife is not for me. In my own experiences, I have met men who want to take me out, “get to know me” and say they want to fill the BAE position because of what they see on the surface. But what about what I want?
Ninety-nine percent of them always fall into the same category: they fail to take the time to observe who I am and understand the woman they are dealing with. Ultimately, they have this idea of me and want to force me into THEIR world. They play themselves by not giving genuine consideration to how I see my future and whether it aligns well with theirs.
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